Dating apps have become one of the most common ways to start a relationship, but they also pose risks that are often overlooked. In the new episode of the podcast Y Tú, ¿Qué Onda?, influencer and content creator La Bizcocho shares her experiences looking for a partner in the United States and offers a practical guide for those who use dating platforms. You can listen to the podcast HERE.
The episode on how to use dating apps is hosted by journalists Jimena Aguilar, Areli Insunza, and Karina Zambrano, who engage in a conversation that blends humor, personal experiences, and useful tips for navigating the world of digital relationships.
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With nearly a decade of creating content on social media, La Bizcocho—whose real name is Elvira—has established herself as one of the most well-known fashion influencers in northern Mexico.
During the interview, she recalls how she started her career on YouTube, navigated the transition to TikTok, and now combines her work as a content creator with her image and fashion consulting business.
However, one of the topics that drew the most attention was her experience using dating apps while living in the United States.
“I already did a reality show on my social media that just came out of nowhere,” she says, explaining that she decided to document her dating experiences on “Gabacholandia,” where she met people through the Hinge app.
Contrary to many stories circulating online, he claims that most of his dates were positive.
“I’ve never had a bad experience; I’ve always met gentlemanly men who won’t let me pay even a peseta,” she says with a laugh.
The Dangers of Online Dating
The tone of the conversation shifts when La Bizcocho explains that, although her personal experiences have been positive, she has also heard of cases that demonstrate the importance of taking every precaution.
It tells the story of a friend who discovered that the man she was talking to was using artificial intelligence to alter his appearance during video calls.
It also recounts the story of a woman who escaped a potentially dangerous situation after going to a stranger’s house.
These experiences serve to present a list of recommendations that he considers essential for anyone who uses dating apps.
Among his top tips on how to use dating apps are:
• Never go to the home of someone you barely know.
• Avoid accepting invitations to isolated places such as mountains or hiking trails.
• Share your location in real time with family or friends.
• Send photos of the person you’ll be meeting.
• Choose restaurants, cafes, or public places with a good number of people.
• Schedule the first meetings during the day.
The content creator insists that these measures can make the difference between a pleasant experience and a risky situation.
A love story that ended because of a misunderstanding
The episode also reveals one of the most difficult moments in La Bizcocho’s love life.
For several months, she was in a relationship with a businessman from India, with whom she was even considering moving to Florida.
However, it all came to an end when a promotional post for a dating app was misinterpreted by people close to him.
According to his account, someone sent him a screenshot along with an offensive message, which led him to decide to end the relationship without giving her a chance to explain the situation.
The lack of emotional closure led her to go through a grieving process that lasted several months, during which she sought psychological help.
The hosts also talk with La Bizcocho about the evolution of social media, the arrival of artificial intelligence in the world of digital content, the growth of their fashion brand, the importance of buying secondhand clothing, and how they’ve learned to handle online criticism.
A Heart-to-Heart Conversation
At the end of the episode, he leaves a message for those who want to become content creators.
“Shame doesn’t pay,” she says, encouraging people to be themselves and stop worrying about putting on a facade of a perfect life on social media.
Featuring personal stories, safety tips, and reflections on love in the digital age, this episode of Y Tú, ¿Qué Onda? offers an intimate conversation about the challenges of finding a partner in an era where dating apps are part of everyday life.
The podcast, hosted by Jimena Aguilar, Areli Insunza, and Karina Zambrano, is an original production by Nueva Network available through Nueva Onda.
The episode is now available on all audio platforms, such as Apple Podcasts and Spotify, where you can also listen to other shows promoted by Nueva Onda and Nueva Network, such as El Diva Show.
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